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innervoice coaching

My name is Maria McEvoy and I am a bilingual Personal Coach and Organizational Psychologist in private practice. In a trusted collaboration I help the client think more clearly and progress by using a powerful process of inquiry, meticulous goal setting and accountability. Through coaching I…

Help you achieve highly valued goals you’ve been unable to reach on your own.

 

I will compassionately and pragmatically challenge your thinking.

 

Offer a style of coaching that is solution and future-oriented.

As your coach I will ask powerful, solution-focused questions, to help you “think about your thinking”, gain clarity and perspective, and establish the necessary steps to reach your ultimate goal. I don’t offer solutions to problems; I quiet the noise in your head so you can hone in on your authentic “InnerVoice,” and map out a detailed plan to meet your personal goals.

There is a voice inside of you That whispers all day long, “I feel that this is right for me, I know that this is wrong.” No teacher, preacher, parent, friend Or wise man can decide What’s right for you-just listen to The voice that speaks inside.

~ Shel Silverstein

TESTIMONIALS

🌟 Identifying Your North Star 🌟

Personal development, is not just about what you do, but WHO you are. That’s where identifying your core values becomes essential. 🚀

Core values are the guiding principles that define your essence, shaping your beliefs, behaviors, and decisions. When you pinpoint these values, you gain a compass for navigating life authentically and intentionally. And when you act in opposition to your core values, it does not feel good.

As a personal development coach, I emphasize the importance of diving deep into your core values. They serve as the foundation upon which you build a life aligned with your true self. 💫

By understanding and honoring your core values, you empower yourself to make choices that resonate with your authentic self. 🌱

Together we can uncover your core values and map out the path to your personal growth! 🌟 #PersonalDevelopment #CoreValues #AuthenticLiving #TrueSelf #CoachingJourney #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

🚗 Embarking on a goal without a plan is like setting off on a road trip without punching an address into your GPS. You’ll just end up going in circles! 😂 Collaborating with clients is all about ensuring we’ve got that destination dialed in, the route mapped out, and enough snacks for the journey (because, priorities!). Let’s make sure we’re not just spinning our wheels, but cruising towards success together! 🌟 #CollaborationStation #GoalsGPS #NoMoreCircles 🛣️ #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

🌟 Strategizing for Success: Facing Obstacles Head-On! 🌟

🚧 When chasing your goals, obstacles are not surprises—they’re expected challenges along the way. But being prepared for them is key to staying on course!

💡 That’s why having a solid strategy with your coach is essential. Together, you can anticipate potential roadblocks, plan for them, and navigate through with resilience.

🛠️ Whether it’s a setback at work, a personal hurdle, or an unforeseen obstacle, your coach is your partner in strategic planning. Together, you can brainstorm solutions, adjust your approach, and keep moving forward!

🌈 So don’t let obstacles catch you off guard. Embrace them as opportunities for growth and learning. With the right strategy and support system in place, you’re equipped to conquer anything! 💪 #StrategicPlanning #OvercomingObstacles #KeepMovingForward #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

“❓Are you repeating 🔁 or evolving?

When you’re stuck in paralysis by analysis, remember: any action is better than none. It signals to your brain that you’re trying, moving, and no longer stuck. Even if it’s a mistake, you gain valuable knowledge. Keep evolving, keep growing! 💡 #ProgressOverPerfection #KeepMovingForward #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

Sometimes any action is better than none. Paralysis by analysis is REAL #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

The willingness to change comes when the pain of staying where you are is too great.
-ANNE LAMOTT #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

🍎 The “Apple” Exercise: A Window into Unique Perspectives 🍏

🌟Before diving into coaching sessions, I always kick things off with what I call the “Apple” exercise.

🌟 I ask participants to envision the word “apple” and share what comes to mind 🌟

🌟The responses? They’re as diverse as the individuals themselves: from the iconic Apple logo to delicious pie, from thoughts of health to memories of childhood teachers and doctors.
🌟Why do I do this?

Because it beautifully illustrates the uniqueness of our thought 🧠 patterns.

🌟Just like how one simple word can spark a myriad of interpretations, bigger concepts like “happiness,” “fulfillment,” or “next chapter” mean different things to different people. 🤔
🌟Understanding this diversity is crucial in coaching. Before guiding someone towards their goals, we must first unravel what those goals truly mean to them.
🌟It’s about delving deep into personal definitions, unraveling complexities, and crafting a roadmap that aligns with their individual journey. 🗺️
🌟So, the next time you utter a desire like “I want to be happy” or “I’m searching for fulfillment,” remember: there’s a world of meaning behind those words. And together, we can navigate that world to uncover your unique path to success. 🚀 #CoachingJourney #UniquePerspectives #DefineYourGoals #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

Thank you @insiderbusiness for writing about the power of hiring a Life Coach. That decision is precisely as you say; an investment in your future.

So much love here…

🎈Let’s raise a glass to this young man celebrating his 60th birthday today🎈
🎈I have had the privilege of witnessing over 25 of those years and here is what I know (other than he will be embarrassed at this public display of admiration)
✨his glass is always half full (of mezcal)
✨his friends follow him wherever he goes
✨he is endlessly curious and optimistic
✨he is never complacent
✨he is of the highest integrity and so fucking patient (except in traffic)
✨he is humble (no really!)
✨he has a joie de vivre that no one is immune too
✨he is 100% present in his relationships and…
✨he is a husband and father beyond compare.
✨and I am as in love with him today as the first time I said it out loud

🍰feliz cumpleaños mi vida! Te amo con todo mi ser 🥂

🌟 Why Personal Development Coaches Shouldn’t Always Give Advice 🌟
🐝 In a world buzzing with advice-givers, sometimes the most powerful thing a life coach can do is to resist the urge to hand out solutions like candy. 🚫🍬 Here’s why:
* Empowerment over Dependency: Instead of spoon-feeding answers, empowering individuals to navigate their own paths fosters long-term growth and independence. 🌱💪
* Deep Listening: By actively listening without rushing to provide solutions, coaches can uncover layers of insight, helping clients to better understand their challenges. 🧠👂
* Uncovering the True Issue: Often, what seems like the problem on the surface is just the tip of the iceberg. By refraining from immediate advice-giving, coaches can dive deeper and address the root causes. 🕵️‍♂️🔍
* Encouraging Self-Reflection: When advice isn’t readily available, clients are prompted to explore their own thoughts and feelings, leading to profound self-discovery. 🌟✨
Remember, sometimes the issue at hand isn’t the real issue. By refraining from quick fixes and embracing the power of inquiry, life coaches can guide their clients towards authentic growth and lasting change. 💼🌱 #LifeCoaching #Empowerment #DeepListening #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

Grey hair is a small price to pay for the wisdom that comes with age #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

A clip 🎞️ from my Coach The Trainers workshop at Life Time on the importance of 🛑 not settling for average.

🌟 Don’t let missed opportunities cost you your growth! 🌟

✨Mediocrity is the enemy of excellence✨

✨Whether it’s professionally or personally, every missed chance to learn and evolve is a step back from becoming the best version of yourself✨
✨ Embrace every challenge, seize every opportunity to learn, and watch how it shapes your journey towards success.
💪 Don’t let fear or doubt hold you back – the cost of missed opportunities is too high. 🔥 #PersonalGrowth #ProfessionalDevelopment #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

✨ Reflecting on an incredible experience! ✨
💪🏻I am still buzzing with excitement from leading my most recent Coach The Trainers workshop for fitness professionals at this stunning health club facility! 🙌 It was truly an unforgettable day filled with passion, dedication, and growth.
💪🏻Seeing these deeply dedicated trainers immerse themselves in learning, sharing insights, and honing their skills was nothing short of inspiring. 💡 The energy in the room was electric as we explored cutting-edge techniques, discussed industry trends, and delved into the art of effective coaching.
💪🏻But beyond the knowledge shared, what made this workshop truly special was the sense of community and camaraderie that filled the space. Connecting with fitness professionals, exchanging ideas, and supporting each other’s growth was a reminder of the incredible power of unity within this industry. 💫
🤗I am immensely grateful to everyone who attended and contributed to making this workshop a success. Your passion and commitment to excellence fuel my own dedication to empowering others in their professional and personal development. 🚀
💪🏻Here’s to continued growth, learning, and collaboration as we strive to make a positive impact in the world of fitness together! #FitnessCommunity #FitnessProfessional

Anyone that knows me knows I am as comfortable in a gym as I am my own home. But THIS gym is a whole other level and I got to lead a Coach The Trainers Workshop there today! Lucky me. #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

Sound checking before a Coach The Trainers workshop at the most beautiful health club I have ever stepped into Life Time One Wall Street #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

What’s the neuroscience behind proper goal-setting? How do you measure excitement around a goal? How do we prepare for obstacles? These are some of the topics I will be covering today @lifetime.nyc

🌟 Embracing Acceptance vs. Falling into Complacency 🌟

🌔In life, there’s a fine line between acceptance and complacency.
🌔Acceptance allows us to acknowledge and make peace with our current circumstances, fostering growth and resilience. It’s about finding peace within ourselves amidst the chaos.
🌔However, complacency can sneak in when we become too comfortable with the status quo, hindering our progress and potential. It’s important to recognize the difference and strive for a balance that pushes us forward while staying grounded in acceptance.
🌔Remember, acceptance doesn’t mean settling. It means understanding, adapting, and then taking action towards positive change. 🌔Let’s embrace acceptance while staying vigilant against complacency, for it’s the key to unlocking our fullest potential. ✨ #Acceptance #Complacency #PersonalGrowth #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

I’d love to hear some of your recurring dreams….

A change will do you good! Just ask @sherylcrow #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

🔄🚀 Embrace the Power of Observation for Transformation! 🚀🔄
Hey, fellow self-reflectors! Ever caught yourself saying, “Damn, I did it again”? 🤦‍♂️ We’ve all been there! But guess what? That moment of realization is your golden ticket to growth. Here’s how:
🔍 Step 1: Own It: First things first – acknowledge your response without judgment. It’s okay to slip up; what matters is what ALLOW yourself to learn in that moment.
👀 Step 2: Observe Without Shame: You can’t change without observing your behavioral habit first.
Dive deep into why you reacted the way you did. Was it fear? Insecurity? Understanding the root cause is the key to unlocking change.
🔄 Step 3: Rewrite Your Script: Armed with self-awareness, rewrite your response script. How we react is as much of a habit as what hand we use to brush our teeth. Instead of reacting impulsively, choose a mindful, intentional reply that aligns with your values.
💪 Step 4: Practice, Practice, Practice: Changing habits takes time and repetition. Each time you catch yourself in a familiar pattern, pause and then pivot towards your new more productive response.
🌟 Step 5: Pat yourself on the back: Identifying habits we want to change is a HUGE ✌️ victory! Many people do not take the time to self-reflect; celebrate your curiosity.
Growth is not a linear 📈path , there are always setbacks ⚠️and that is to be expected!

🔄🚀 Embrace the Power of Observation for Transformation! 🚀🔄
Hey, fellow self-reflectors! Ever caught yourself saying, “Damn, I did it again”? 🤦‍♂️ We’ve all been there! But guess what? That moment of realization is your golden ticket to growth. Here’s how:
🔍 Step 1: Own It: First things first – acknowledge your response without judgment. It’s okay to slip up; what matters is what ALLOW yourself to learn in that moment.
👀 Step 2: Observe Without Shame: You can’t change without observing your behavioral habit first.
Dive deep into why you reacted the way you did. Was it fear? Insecurity? Understanding the root cause is the key to unlocking change.
🔄 Step 3: Rewrite Your Script: Armed with self-awareness, rewrite your response script. How we react is as much of a habit as what hand we use to brush our teeth. Instead of reacting impulsively, choose a mindful, intentional reply that aligns with your values.
💪 Step 4: Practice, Practice, Practice: Changing habits takes time and repetition. Each time you catch yourself in a familiar pattern, pause and then pivot towards your new more productive response.
🌟 Step 5: Pat yourself on the back: Identifying habits we want to change is a HUGE ✌️ victory! Many people do not take the time to self-reflect; celebrate your curiosity.
Growth is not a linear 📈path , there are always setbacks ⚠️and that is to be expected!

🔍💼 How to Determine if we are a Perfect Match for Coaching! 💼🔍

🌱 Today, let’s dive into the process of finding that perfect coaching fit – because trust me; it’s crucial for your success! Here’s how you can tell if you and I are a match made in coaching heaven:

🗣️ Open Heart, Open Mind: Are you ready to embrace feedback, explore new perspectives, and take action towards your goals? A coachable mindset is key to unlocking your full potential!
🎯 Crystal Clear Goals: Do you have a clear vision of what you want to achieve? Having specific, achievable goals is the compass that guides our coaching journey.
💡 Aligned Values: Do your values and beliefs resonate with my coaching approach? When our values align, magic happens – trust, understanding, and synergy pave the way for remarkable transformations!
💪 Commitment to Change: Are you ready to roll up your sleeves and dive into the work of personal development? Your commitment to growth and willingness to invest in yourself are the secret ingredients to success!
🤝 Compatibility: Is there a spark between you and I? Chemistry matters! A strong rapport and genuine connection can turn coaching sessions into empowering conversations that change lives.

⏰ Take the time to explore, ask questions, and trust your instincts. Your journey towards goal achievements starts with the right partner by your side!

Why vision boards alone don’t work in goal-setting. See comments

🔑 Ever wondered why some goals leave you feeling unfulfilled, while others ignite a fire 🔥 within you?

🔑The secret lies in aligning your goals with your core values (mine is ☕️ just kidding)

🔑But how do you discover what they are? 🤔 Here are a few tips to guide you on your journey of self-discovery:
* Reflect on Your Passions: What activities or causes make your heart sing? Your passions often reveal what you hold dear and can guide you towards your core values.
* Identify Peak Experiences: Think back to moments when you felt most alive and fulfilled. What values were present in those experiences? They could provide valuable insights into what truly matters to you.
* Consider Your Role Models: Reflect on the people you admire most. What qualities do they possess that resonate with you? These qualities could reflect your own core values.
* Examine Your Choices: Take a closer look at the decisions you’ve made in life. What motivated those choices? Understanding the underlying values behind your decisions can shed light on your core values.
* Visualize Your Ideal Life: Envision your ideal life without any limitations. What principles and beliefs would guide your actions in this scenario? This vision can help uncover your deepest values.

Be patient with yourself and embrace the process of self-discovery. Once you’re clear on your values, you can set goals that truly resonate with who you are, leading to greater fulfillment and success.
#getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

#getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #SuccessMindset #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife

🌟 Dive into the world of Personal Development Coaching! 🌟
Ever had those moments where you’re like, “AHA! Why didn’t I see that before?” 🤔💡 Then, there are those “I should have known that” moments when wisdom strikes, and you wonder why it took so long! 😅 That’s the magical blend of life coaching – a journey filled with enlightening AHA moments and those hilarious “I should have known that” moments! 😄✨ Embrace the journey, laugh along the way, and let’s unlock those revelations together! 🚀💬 #LifeCoachingAdventures #AHA #ShouldHaveKnownBetter #WisdomJourney #getunstuck #impostersyndrome #LifeCoach #trainyourbrain #nyclifecoach #PersonalDevelopment #SelfImprovement #MindsetMatters #GoalSetting #Empowerment #MotivationMonday #SuccessMindset #Mindfulness #PositiveVibes #SelfLove #Inspiration #AchieveYourGoals #CoachingWorks #GrowthMindset #SelfDiscovery #ConfidenceBoost #MindsetCoach #TransformYourLife #PurposeDriven